😢

 Sam and I had our 2nd big fight.. again about Daisy.  He brought up divorce again.  🤷🏻‍♀️😱😭 He expects me to be on his side no matter how unreasonable it might seem, and I expect him to be reasonable no matter how he feels.

How did it get to this about Daisy?  I wish he would go to therapy just to see what the root of the issue this is stemming from.

Besides that- I feel like we can talk about anything/everything else- despite how he or how I feel.  But when it comes to Daisy- there is no give on his part.  It’s something he wants me to just let go of. 

I wish he would understand, it’s hard to do cuz not only does she represent my mom, now that dad has passed, it’s almost like a sub for mom/dad in a way.  It also binds me to my sister and he wants me to cut her out. Last family I have left (except my own of course)

Nothing I can do but pray about it.  Change my mindset for change his- at least for one of us to truly understand the other in this situation. 

After he left, when he came back he did apologize… which is 10x further than last time.  I wonder if I’ve matured as much as he has.  Sigh….